When the Church Hurts: 10 Things NOT to Do After You’ve Been Wounded

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  I’ve gone back and forth on whether to write about this, partly because I’m still walking through it myself. Just last week, I made the difficult decision to leave my church of ten years. I won’t go into the details here; that’s a story for another day. What I will say is this: even […]

The Blueprint of Your Breakthrough: Reset. Reflect. Reveal.

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    I was 12 years old when I had my first real encounter with God. We arrived late to the church service that day, and because there weren’t enough seats together, they separated me from my family. I ended up in the very back…alone, surrounded by strangers. (Funny how what feels like a misplacement […]

How Faith Carried Me Through Infertility, Loss, and the Miracle of Motherhood

Trigger Warning: This post discusses pregnancy loss and infertility. Mother’s Day always stirs up a lot of emotions for me. Last year, it hit differently because I finally got to share the news that I was carrying the baby girl God promised us. I didn’t share it immediately; I waited until I was well into […]

Infertility Awareness Week: Holding Onto Hope When the Journey Hurts.

Infertility Awareness Week: Holding Onto Hope When the Journey Hurts Infertility is not just a medical diagnosis—it’s an emotional, spiritual, and often isolating experience. For Christian women who believe in miracles and the power of prayer, the silence of waiting can feel deafening. During Infertility Awareness Week, I want to open the door to healing […]