Today, I Choose Joy
There comes a time in life when we decide to be happy regardless of how things turned out. I’m not talking about toxic positivity or pretending that things don’t still hurt. I’m talking about focusing on things that we can control. I remember hearing Steve Harvey talk about how he was able to change his […]
Toxic Positivity: Why We Should Stop Saying Everything Happens For a Reason.

You’ve heard the statements. And, like me, you’ve probably used them and still do. You thought you were doing well by the person, giving them hope, and alleviating their pain. The irony is you may not have even believed the statements but said them out of social norm and habit. After all, you meant well. […]
Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month
I contemplated this post because I know all too well how this post can be a trigger for many. I posted it knowing that bringing awareness is vital to both changing the narrative and helping those who have experienced this type of loss. We all have something in common. We don’t want our babies forgotten. […]
The Day We Finalized Our Adoption
The Day We Finalized Our Adoption This is our little family standing outside the courtroom where we finalized the adoption of our son. It is one of the best moments of our lives. I remember the moment I first heard about him and how my heart immediately loved him. I couldn’t wait to meet this […]