There comes a time in life when we decide to be happy regardless of how things turned out. I'm not talking about toxic positivity or pretending that things don't still hurt. I'm talking about focusing on things that we can control. I remember hearing Steve Harvey talk about how he was able to change his … Continue reading Today, I Choose Joy
Infertility
Toxic Positivity: Why We Should Stop Saying Everything Happens For a Reason.
Everything happens for a reason. You should be happy. Stay positive.Things could always be worse. Look on the brighter side.Failure is not an option. You should be happy for them. Your dreams should scare you. God never gives you more than you can handle. Just don't think about it, and it will happen. You've heard the statements. And, like me, you've probably … Continue reading Toxic Positivity: Why We Should Stop Saying Everything Happens For a Reason.
Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month
I contemplated this post because I know all too well how this post can be a trigger for many. I posted it knowing that bringing awareness is vital to both changing the narrative and helping those who have experienced this type of loss. We all have something in common. We don't want our babies forgotten. … Continue reading Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month
The Day We Finalized Our Adoption
The Day We Finalized Our Adoption This is our little family standing outside the courtroom where we finalized the adoption of our son. It is one of the best moments of our lives. I remember the moment I first heard about him and how my heart immediately loved him. I couldn’t wait to meet this … Continue reading The Day We Finalized Our Adoption
National birth Mom’s day
Today is National Birth Mom's day. This day is special to me because if it wasn't for my son's selfless birth mom, I would not be the mother I am today. For numerous families, adoption is the only way to be parents. I want to reiterate that we do not take lightly that the day … Continue reading National birth Mom’s day
Ebby's Lane 