First, I want to say thank you! Thank you to those who are still following. I truly appreciate you sticking around through the years of quiet. Thank you to those who are new as well. If you know my story, you understand it has been a rough few years figuring out how to navigate life … Continue reading Update!
Online dating has evolved in the last couple of years. In fact, dating is not the same as it used to be even from a year ago. However, there are plenty of success stories when it comes to online dating, mine included. The crazy thing is we both were reluctant to do it, especially on … Continue reading DATING Series: Online Dating
For the month of February, I am sprinkling a series of relationship/ dating blogs in honor of my five year wedding anniversary. I'm beginning with one I wrote a year or two ago and decided to update. Dear Husband, I wish a camera could briefly hone in on our real-life fairytale. Not for show, but … Continue reading Relationship Series: Dear Husband
I had to reblog and share this because too many times people make comments and ask questions devoid of the pain behind them. Many times a woman delay in pregnancy is not her immediate choice. People may mean well but should think twice before asking someone when they will have children, get married, do…you feel in the blank. This blog articulates why you should think before asking and reiterates how its none of your business anyway.
Somewhere there is a woman: 30, no children. People ask her, “Still no kids?” Her response varies from day to day, but it usually includes forced smiles and restraint.
“Nope, not yet,” she says with a chuckle, muffling her frustration.
“Well, don’t wait forever. That clock is ticking, ya know,” the sage says before departing, happy with herself for imparting such erudite wisdom. The sage leaves. The woman holds her smile. Alone, she cries…
Cries because she’s been pregnant 4 times and miscarried every one. Cries because she started trying for a baby on her wedding night, and that was 5 years ago. Cries because her husband has an ex-wife and she has given him children. Cries because she wants desperately to try in vitro but can’t even afford the deposit. Cries because she’s done in vitro (multiple rounds) and still has no children. Cries because her best friend wouldn’t…
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Dear Husband, I am slightly hesitant to write this open letter because our marriage is sacred to me. Yet, at times, I wish a camera could briefly hone in on our real-life fairytale. Not for show, but for inspiration and proof that love can be pure, love can be fun, and love can be genuine. Dear husband, I remember the … Continue reading KISS & TELL: Dear Husband